Ever wondered why (almost) all the 'Forever Alone' people have the best relationship advice...
Most of us have seen people give relationship advice to others, usually they don't work out that great... but... there is a group of people, the so-called 'Forever Alone' people that seems to have cracked the code of giving the best relationship advice.
If you have ever noticed, you might know that they have most of the times, the clearest of ideas on the terms like Love, Relationship, Self Respect, Understanding and many more such terms which we need to know when we are in a relationship. It is only in the extreme situations where they have to think for a long time before saying anything, but when they have their answer ready... well... you know that that is going to work.
SO, we all have wondered that how these people get that kind of wisdom...
SO NOW
Let's quickly get to the point and cutting building up the expectations, I will try to give kind of an explanation and an answer to why and how these people get to know their way around the situations they have never even been in...
Well for starters...
It is not entirely true that they have never been in such a situation before they tried to tackle and handle that for their friend.
In fact, they have been in such a situation multiple times imagining the different outcomes of different choices and things they make and say. Also they are very clear in perspective and this all has been possible through practise of course.
No matter how much they say that they don't care about such stuff but the truth is deep down, they do. Probably not as much as the desperate kind of people but... they do.
Now on to another important question, 'How is that they always seem to know what to say?' Well to answer this question, we need to see a little deep into their lives, and if we do, we find that they tend to be good readers or movie lovers. And not only any genre, they seem to be particularly interested in light-hearted Rom-Coms, Love stories, and such.
Now if we try to understand the impact of this, we find that such books or movies have made them look towards love in many different perspectives and point of views. Thus when they see at a real life problem of their friend, they are reminded of these type of situations in the books or movies they have read or watched, now, as they can't just simply quote the reference, they tend to furnish and polish it a bit and come up with their own solution. Also as they have seen and read such great books and movies, they tend to look deep into the matter and see what others cannot see, they tend to understand the situation with much more ease than other people.
For another major question which all the friends of such alleged 'Forever Alone' people have is that,
'If they're such clear about everything related to love, relationships etc. ('cause I don't have more words LOL) then why can't they find a partner for themselves...'
To answer these question we need to again look into the lives of such people, firstly they are introverted AF . Because, no extroverted person would like to sit down and read SO MANY books or watch SO MANY movies, So there's that and again because of fairy tale level 'Love Gyaan' they expect very high ideals in their partners and are not willing to compromise that to even consider people that miss out on only few criterion.
So, They are introverted and don't talk to anyone easily or at all, then they are very picky to consider those who kind of try to approach them and thus they are rarely in a relationship. But it is worth noting that when they find the right person they just give it all to their partner and are willing to go to great extents to work out their relationships...
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